This could be why you’re depressed or anxious | Johann Hari

This could be why you’re depressed or anxious | Johann Hari


For a really long time, I had two mysteries
that were hanging over me. I didn’t understand them and, to be honest, I was quite afraid
to look into them. The first mystery was, I’m 40 years old, and all throughout my lifetime,
year after year, serious depression and anxiety have risen, in the United States, in Britain, and across the Western world. And I wanted to understand why. Why is this happening to us? Why is it that with each year that passes, more and more of us are finding it harder
to get through the day? And I wanted to understand this
because of a more personal mystery. When I was a teenager, I remember going to my doctor and explaining that I had this feeling,
like pain was leaking out of me. I couldn’t control it, I didn’t understand why it was happening, I felt quite ashamed of it. And my doctor told me a story that I now realize was well-intentioned, but quite oversimplified. Not totally wrong. My doctor said, “We know
why people get like this. Some people just naturally get
a chemical imbalance in their heads — you’re clearly one of them. All we need to do is give you some drugs, it will get your chemical
balance back to normal.” So I started taking a drug
called Paxil or Seroxat, it’s the same thing with different names
in different countries. And I felt much better,
I got a real boost. But not very long afterwards, this feeling of pain started to come back. So I was given higher and higher doses until, for 13 years, I was taking
the maximum possible dose that you’re legally allowed to take. And for a lot of those 13 years,
and pretty much all the time by the end, I was still in a lot of pain. And I started asking myself,
“What’s going on here? Because you’re doing everything you’re told to do by the story
that’s dominating the culture — why do you still feel like this?” So to get to the bottom
of these two mysteries, for a book that I’ve written I ended up going on a big journey
all over the world, I traveled over 40,000 miles. I wanted to sit with the leading
experts in the world about what causes depression and anxiety and crucially, what solves them, and people who have come through
depression and anxiety and out the other side
in all sorts of ways. And I learned a huge amount from the amazing people
I got to know along the way. But I think at the heart
of what I learned is, so far, we have scientific evidence for nine different causes
of depression and anxiety. Two of them are indeed in our biology. Your genes can make you
more sensitive to these problems, though they don’t write your destiny. And there are real brain changes
that can happen when you become depressed that can make it harder to get out. But most of the factors
that have been proven to cause depression and anxiety are not in our biology. They are factors in the way we live. And once you understand them, it opens up a very different
set of solutions that should be offered to people alongside the option
of chemical antidepressants. For example, if you’re lonely, you’re more likely
to become depressed. If, when you go to work,
you don’t have any control over your job, you’ve just got to do what you’re told, you’re more likely to become depressed. If you very rarely get out
into the natural world, you’re more likely to become depressed. And one thing unites a lot of the causes
of depression and anxiety that I learned about. Not all of them, but a lot of them. Everyone here knows you’ve all got natural
physical needs, right? Obviously. You need food, you need water, you need shelter, you need clean air. If I took those things away from you, you’d all be in real trouble, real fast. But at the same time, every human being
has natural psychological needs. You need to feel you belong. You need to feel your life
has meaning and purpose. You need to feel that people
see you and value you. You need to feel you’ve got
a future that makes sense. And this culture we built
is good at lots of things. And many things are better
than in the past — I’m glad to be alive today. But we’ve been getting less and less good at meeting these deep,
underlying psychological needs. And it’s not the only thing
that’s going on, but I think it’s the key reason
why this crisis keeps rising and rising. And I found this really hard to absorb. I really wrestled with the idea of shifting from thinking of my depression
as just a problem in my brain, to one with many causes, including many in the way we’re living. And it only really began
to fall into place for me when one day, I went to interview
a South African psychiatrist named Dr. Derek Summerfield. He’s a great guy. And Dr. Summerfield
happened to be in Cambodia in 2001, when they first introduced
chemical antidepressants for people in that country. And the local doctors, the Cambodians,
had never heard of these drugs, so they were like, what are they? And he explained. And they said to him, “We don’t need them,
we’ve already got antidepressants.” And he was like, “What do you mean?” He thought they were going to talk about
some kind of herbal remedy, like St. John’s Wort, ginkgo biloba,
something like that. Instead, they told him a story. There was a farmer in their community
who worked in the rice fields. And one day, he stood on a land mine left over from the war
with the United States, and he got his leg blown off. So they him an artificial leg, and after a while, he went back
to work in the rice fields. But apparently, it’s super painful
to work under water when you’ve got an artificial limb, and I’m guessing it was pretty traumatic to go back and work in the field
where he got blown up. The guy started to cry all day, he refused to get out of bed, he developed all the symptoms
of classic depression. The Cambodian doctor said, “This is when we gave him
an antidepressant.” And Dr. Summerfield said,
“What was it?” They explained that they went
and sat with him. They listened to him. They realized that his pain made sense — it was hard for him to see it
in the throes of his depression, but actually, it had perfectly
understandable causes in his life. One of the doctors, talking to the people
in the community, figured, “You know, if we bought this guy a cow, he could become a dairy farmer, he wouldn’t be in this position
that was screwing him up so much, he wouldn’t have to go
and work in the rice fields.” So they bought him a cow. Within a couple of weeks,
his crying stopped, within a month, his depression was gone. They said to doctor Summerfield, “So you see, doctor, that cow,
that was an antidepressant, that’s what you mean, right?” (Laughter) (Applause) If you’d been raised to think
about depression the way I was, and most of the people here were, that sounds like a bad joke, right? “I went to my doctor
for an antidepressant, she gave me a cow.” But what those Cambodian
doctors knew intuitively, based on this individual,
unscientific anecdote, is what the leading
medical body in the world, the World Health Organization, has been trying to tell us for years, based on the best scientific evidence. If you’re depressed, if you’re anxious, you’re not weak, you’re not crazy, you’re not, in the main,
a machine with broken parts. You’re a human being with unmet needs. And it’s just as important to think here
about what those Cambodian doctors and the World Health Organization
are not saying. They did not say to this farmer, “Hey, buddy, you need
to pull yourself together. It’s your job to figure out
and fix this problem on your own.” On the contrary, what they said is, “We’re here as a group
to pull together with you, so together, we can figure out
and fix this problem.” This is what every depressed person needs, and it’s what every
depressed person deserves. This is why one of the leading
doctors at the United Nations, in their official statement
for World Health Day, couple of years back in 2017, said we need to talk less
about chemical imbalances and more about the imbalances
in the way we live. Drugs give real relief to some people — they gave relief to me for a while — but precisely because this problem
goes deeper than their biology, the solutions need to go much deeper, too. But when I first learned that, I remember thinking, “OK, I could see
all the scientific evidence, I read a huge number of studies, I interviewed a huge number of the experts
who were explaining this,” but I kept thinking, “How can we
possibly do that?” The things that are making us depressed are in most cases more complex
than what was going on with this Cambodian farmer. Where do we even begin with that insight? But then, in the long journey for my book, all over the world, I kept meeting people
who were doing exactly that, from Sydney, to San Francisco, to São Paulo. I kept meeting people
who were understanding the deeper causes
of depression and anxiety and, as groups, fixing them. Obviously, I can’t tell you
about all the amazing people I got to know and wrote about, or all of the nine causes of depression
and anxiety that I learned about, because they won’t let me give
a 10-hour TED Talk — you can complain about that to them. But I want to focus on two of the causes and two of the solutions
that emerge from them, if that’s alright. Here’s the first. We are the loneliest society
in human history. There was a recent study
that asked Americans, “Do you feel like you’re no longer
close to anyone?” And 39 percent of people
said that described them. “No longer close to anyone.” In the international
measurements of loneliness, Britain and the rest of Europe
are just behind the US, in case anyone here is feeling smug. (Laughter) I spent a lot of time discussing this with the leading expert
in the world on loneliness, an incredible man
named professor John Cacioppo, who was at Chicago, and I thought a lot about one question
his work poses to us. Professor Cacioppo asked, “Why do we exist? Why are we here, why are we alive?” One key reason is that our ancestors
on the savannas of Africa were really good at one thing. They weren’t bigger than the animals
they took down a lot of the time, they weren’t faster than the animals
they took down a lot of the time, but they were much better
at banding together into groups and cooperating. This was our superpower as a species — we band together, just like bees evolved to live in a hive, humans evolved to live in a tribe. And we are the first humans ever to disband our tribes. And it is making us feel awful. But it doesn’t have to be this way. One of the heroes in my book,
and in fact, in my life, is a doctor named Sam Everington. He’s a general practitioner
in a poor part of East London, where I lived for many years. And Sam was really uncomfortable, because he had loads of patients coming to him with terrible
depression and anxiety. And like me, he’s not opposed
to chemical antidepressants, he thinks they give
some relief to some people. But he could see two things. Firstly, his patients were depressed
and anxious a lot of the time for totally understandable
reasons, like loneliness. And secondly, although the drugs
were giving some relief to some people, for many people,
they didn’t solve the problem. The underlying problem. One day, Sam decided
to pioneer a different approach. A woman came to his center,
his medical center, called Lisa Cunningham. I got to know Lisa later. And Lisa had been shut away in her home
with crippling depression and anxiety for seven years. And when she came to Sam’s center,
she was told, “Don’t worry, we’ll carry on giving you these drugs, but we’re also going to prescribe
something else. We’re going to prescribe for you
to come here to this center twice a week to meet with a group of other
depressed and anxious people, not to talk about how miserable you are, but to figure out something
meaningful you can all do together so you won’t be lonely and you won’t feel
like life is pointless.” The first time this group met, Lisa literally started
vomiting with anxiety, it was so overwhelming for her. But people rubbed her back,
the group started talking, they were like, “What could we do?” These are inner-city,
East London people like me, they didn’t know anything about gardening. They were like, “Why don’t we
learn gardening?” There was an area
behind the doctors’ offices that was just scrubland. “Why don’t we make this into a garden?” They started to take books
out of the library, started to watch YouTube clips. They started to get
their fingers in the soil. They started to learn
the rhythms of the seasons. There’s a lot of evidence that exposure to the natural world is a really powerful antidepressant. But they started to do something
even more important. They started to form a tribe. They started to form a group. They started to care about each other. If one of them didn’t show up, the others would go
looking for them — “Are you OK?” Help them figure out
what was troubling them that day. The way Lisa put it to me, “As the garden began to bloom, we began to bloom.” This approach is called
social prescribing, it’s spreading all over Europe. And there’s a small,
but growing body of evidence suggesting it can produce real
and meaningful falls in depression and anxiety. And one day, I remember
standing in the garden that Lisa and her once-depressed
friends had built — it’s a really beautiful garden — and having this thought, it’s very much inspired by a guy
called professor Hugh Mackay in Australia. I was thinking, so often
when people feel down in this culture, what we say to them — I’m sure
everyone here said it, I have — we say, “You just need
to be you, be yourself.” And I’ve realized, actually,
what we should say to people is, “Don’t be you. Don’t be yourself. Be us, be we. Be part of a group.” (Applause) The solution to these problems does not lie in drawing
more and more on your resources as an isolated individual — that’s partly what got us in this crisis. It lies on reconnecting
with something bigger than you. And that really connects
to one of the other causes of depression and anxiety
that I wanted to talk to you about. So everyone knows junk food has taken over our diets
and made us physically sick. I don’t say that
with any sense of superiority, I literally came to give
this talk from McDonald’s. I saw all of you eating that
healthy TED breakfast, I was like no way. But just like junk food has taken over
our diets and made us physically sick, a kind of junk values
have taken over our minds and made us mentally sick. For thousands of years,
philosophers have said, if you think life is about money,
and status and showing off, you’re going to feel like crap. That’s not an exact quote
from Schopenhauer, but that is the gist of what he said. But weirdly, hardy anyone
had scientifically investigated this, until a truly extraordinary person
I got to know, named professor Tim Kasser, who’s at Knox College in Illinois, and he’s been researching this
for about 30 years now. And his research suggests
several really important things. Firstly, the more you believe you can buy and display
your way out of sadness, and into a good life, the more likely you are to become
depressed and anxious. And secondly, as a society, we have become
much more driven by these beliefs. All throughout my lifetime, under the weight of advertising
and Instagram and everything like them. And as I thought about this, I realized it’s like we’ve all been fed
since birth, a kind of KFC for the soul. We’ve been trained to look for happiness
in all the wrong places, and just like junk food
doesn’t meet your nutritional needs and actually makes you feel terrible, junk values don’t meet
your psychological needs, and they take you away from a good life. But when I first spent time
with professor Kasser and I was learning all this, I felt a really weird mixture of emotions. Because on the one hand,
I found this really challenging. I could see how often
in my own life, when I felt down, I tried to remedy it with some kind of
show-offy, grand external solution. And I could see why that
did not work well for me. I also thought,
isn’t this kind of obvious? Isn’t this almost like banal, right? If I said to everyone here, none of you are going to lie
on your deathbed and think about all the shoes you bought
and all the retweets you got, you’re going to think about moments of love, meaning
and connection in your life. I think that seems almost like a cliché. But I kept talking
to professor Kasser and saying, “Why am I feeling
this strange doubleness?” And he said, “At some level,
we all know these things. But in this culture,
we don’t live by them.” We know them so well
they’ve become clichés, but we don’t live by them. I kept asking why, why would we know
something so profound, but not live by it? And after a while,
professor Kasser said to me, “Because we live in a machine that is designed to get us to neglect
what is important about life.” I had to really think about that. “Because we live in a machine that is designed to get us
to neglect what is important about life.” And professor Kasser wanted to figure out
if we can disrupt that machine. He’s done loads of research into this; I’ll tell you about one example, and I really urge everyone here
to try this with their friends and family. With a guy called Nathan Dungan,
he got a group of teenagers and adults to come together for a series of sessions
over a period of time, to meet up. And part of the point of the group was to get people to think
about a moment in their life they had actually found
meaning and purpose. For different people,
it was different things. For some people, it was playing music,
writing, helping someone — I’m sure everyone here
can picture something, right? And part of the point of the group
was to get people to ask, “OK, how could you dedicate
more of your life to pursuing these moments
of meaning and purpose, and less to, I don’t know,
buying crap you don’t need, putting it on social media
and trying to get people to go, ‘OMG, so jealous!'” And what they found was, just having these meetings, it was like a kind of Alcoholics Anonymous
for consumerism, right? Getting people to have these meetings,
articulate these values, determine to act on them
and check in with each other, led to a marked shift in people’s values. It took them away from this hurricane
of depression-generating messages training us to seek happiness
in the wrong places, and towards more meaningful
and nourishing values that lift us out of depression. But with all the solutions that I saw
and have written about, and many I can’t talk about here, I kept thinking, you know: Why did it take me so long
to see these insights? Because when you explain them to people — some of them are more
complicated, but not all — when you explain this to people,
it’s not like rocket science, right? At some level, we already
know these things. Why do we find it so hard to understand? I think there’s many reasons. But I think one reason is
that we have to change our understanding of what depression
and anxiety actually are. There are very real
biological contributions to depression and anxiety. But if we allow the biology
to become the whole picture, as I did for so long, as I would argue our culture
has done pretty much most of my life, what we’re implicitly saying to people
is, and this isn’t anyone’s intention, but what we’re implicitly
saying to people is, “Your pain doesn’t mean anything. It’s just a malfunction. It’s like a glitch in a computer program, it’s just a wiring problem in your head.” But I was only able to start
changing my life when I realized your depression
is not a malfunction. It’s a signal. Your depression is a signal. It’s telling you something. (Applause) We feel this way for reasons, and they can be hard to see
in the throes of depression — I understand that really well
from personal experience. But with the right help,
we can understand these problems and we can fix these problems together. But to do that, the very first step is we have to stop insulting these signals by saying they’re a sign of weakness,
or madness or purely biological, except for a tiny number of people. We need to start
listening to these signals, because they’re telling us
something we really need to hear. It’s only when we truly
listen to these signals, and we honor these signals
and respect these signals, that we’re going to begin to see the liberating, nourishing,
deeper solutions. The cows that are waiting all around us. Thank you. (Applause)

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  1. It's hard when you're not good at connecting with people. The reason I'm lonely is because I stopped connecting with people because every time I did, it would just turn sour. Spending time with people isn't always easy and rosy.

  2. Is it possible to translate the video into spanish? I really want to show it to my friends :C
    glad to find people working, thinking and living that way

  3. If you suffer from anxiety, depression or any mental illness look up pyroluria. It is a vitamin deficiency causing genetic issue that effects 10 percent of the population.
    If you have poor dream recal or ever had white spots under your fingernails that is a sign of b6 and zinc deficiency.
    The right dose of b6 amd zinc along with a gluten, soy and dairy free diet fixed my "bipolar" quick.
    Half of all mental problems are a result of simple pyroluria. Research.

  4. The day I decided to go outside and walk on my lunch break is the day I stopped having anxiety. During the summer, I had my very first and I decided—my last anxiety attack. I took meds for 30 days. I know it sounds simple, but it has worked for me.

  5. This happens because governments keep on bringing immigrants from cultures that don't match the liberal valued of mine, creating pockets of crime and rape, drugs, insecurity and lawlessness, undermining the work unions and lowering salaries, having more children and taking more government aid because their parenting standards are lower than mine, with women subjected and submissive while mine are brainwashed by Disney and work 40 hours.

    Lower, homogeneous population with shared values can care about themselves, the environment, their culture.

    A country with mass immigration can't do that. It only benefits the billionaire elites, with family names we all now.

    I can't keep my home safe if it belongs to everyone.

    Capitalism works, immigration and globalization doesn't.

  6. "lost connections" the best book I have ever read, I wish everybody could read this it would help so many people to understand depression and the root of it, not just in themselves but in others too. If you truly understand something you are half way to finding a solution.

  7. NHS 5 ways to mental health wellbeing, along with good social prescribing, occupational therapy, person centred care and meaningful tasks and participation at any level can all help with mental ill health. Consideration for environmental factors ….
    If only my GP was aware of this talk and my minimal knowledge because he said I couldn’t possibly be depressed because I don’t have a chemical imbalance.
    Bring on the cows lol

  8. There is some truth to this obviously but since society is not gonna give you what you need you're stuck with the pills. Also, once you have a chemical unbalance you might even have a perfect situation and it won't do it. Also, is this the same guy who says Portugal found the perfect way to address drug addiction!? Right

  9. I’m related this so much and I know some teacher think I rather pursue art but I rather do singing cause I can’t be creative cause I used to like art but decreased me so much and cause me to bring me down 🤦‍♀️

  10. Best explanation of depression and anxiety I have ever heard. So spot on. One thing I would add is that Depression and Anxiety are more of a fear for being judged. Therefore triggering worthlessness. God bless all those with D and A.

  11. i just got out of depression, and was going good with my life,
    until i saw this video that reminded me how depressed I was.

    now i remember everything, and now i'm depressed again

  12. I know many people personally, that went to place like Cambodia to find meaning in their life, and they've always come back a different person. More Wholesome and sense of direction.

  13. I don't feel depressed because I am isolated from people. I feel depressed and hopeless because people are disgusting… and feel at my worst when I have to interact with them.

  14. Life stressors are just a trigger to get at the bottom ,which is manifested through the big unanswered questions concerning the purpose of life and the existence!
    Through this kind of suffering you might either end up completely lost or thoroughly guided!

  15. Yet for me I just kept getting told to go hang myself.. What a wonderful tribe you are youtube! Truly the Best thanks!

  16. Just a machine full of broken parts
    Emptiness where I used to have a heart
    I'm still breathing but I'm synthetic
    Nothing human left in me

  17. He's probably really smart and MOST of what he says but I think he's confused between depression and sadness. Sadness can have the same symptoms and is greatly under-recognized. It is based in circumstances not biologic. If you lose your job, you are sad, not depressed. If you do have depression, sad events can be triggers for a downward spiral, but people who are not depressed are able to "bootstrap" themselves. When a person has depression, sad events can actually trigger resignation since the deppressive, without treatment, lives in a world where things do not get better. I was in the middle of an incredibly supportive society but did not recognize my depression and anxiety. That made life very hard for the people who love me.

  18. In my country, communities are still a thing. Maybe that's one reason why statistics on depression is much lower, but at the same time, in cities, where communities are already almost "gone", there are larger amounts of people succumbing to depression and anxiety.

  19. You know when somebody on a TED talk you’ve never heard of or met in your entire life reads out an almost exact copy of what you’re feeling through this life, something is wrong with the way things are run on this Earth.

  20. We do wash our hands of each other instead of seeing the other has needs we may be able to provide or find someone else who can.

  21. All what he talks about are the key component about Gestalt therapy, a way of psychotherapy! No need for medication! It's all about listening to your personal feelings and wishes, your goals! I suffered from depression and anxiety. I'm really grateful for taking this way. It's was't a easy one, but it made me stronger then before! Tl; dr psychotherapy is great, but you have to face your deamons ect. progress! its worth every penny!

  22. We are depressed and anxious – because we are dying – and so is everyone we love.

    Had we never been born – it would have never bothered us.

    ~Stop Breeding

  23. Mean while in Africa . We grow up with a community and live in extended families. We till our land for healthy food and forge deep human connections that are always evident in the kinds of our tradition ceremonies that we hold. Explains the low prevalence of depression here!

  24. Something I think about often. & reality seems to be becoming much more harder to face for so many people with everything going on.

  25. A doctor at his retirement party once said "Of all the people i've seen on their death beds over the years not once did one say I wish i'd spent more time at work."

  26. If you’re depressed or anxious you are not alone, millions of people around the world currently feel just like you do✅

  27. I am sure this applies to most people with the condition, yet for someone like me that not only does not like being social, but actually down right hates people, this would probably be a bad idea.

  28. When people have suffered depression long enough, they just don't care anymore. That's the cruel reality we face in. People not caring anymore.

  29. Loneliness … can we make a group of good people a website where you can join lobbies and talk about your feelings and respect what others say … we can make friends we can make partners we can find help
    What you think

  30. 4:20 Nowadays the only thing psychiatry does is figure out ways to exploit you to get your buy junk you don't need and make you feel depressed because you can't have it. Psychology what is it good for absolutely nothing.

  31. 16:38
    The machine is capitalism. Capitalism has designed a system to turn you into the perfect consuming device.
    But at the end of the day, stuff won't make you happy.

  32. So true. Our lives are full of junk food and junk values. We need wholesome food and wholesome values. It comes down to making the choice to nurture our body, our mind and our soul.

  33. “We live in a machine that is designed to get us to neglect what is important about life”.

    iPhone needs to be put away more consistently.

  34. i wasn't going to watch the whole talk, because i was looking for somethin else. but wow i could not help it. great talk. one of the very best, if not the best.

  35. You are depressed and anxious because deep down you realize that the times are rough and the only choice that man have is to contirbute to the sick system they despise that will chew ou over and over until there is no taste left and then it will spit you out to leave you on the streets like trash if you are not ruthless and smart. Many people don't want to be like that because they are kind and actually have souls.

  36. This is one of the most powerful lectures that I’ve ever heard. Brilliantly done. As someone who has been depressed for more than 10 years, this video lit a lightbulb in my head. Thank you.

  37. I've listened to 'Lost Connections', Johann's book on depression and anxiety. He narrates it himself, it's amazing. I recommend it to everyone even if they don't notice their struggles. Anyone else reading this experienced it let me know if it helped you?

  38. Fukushima
    GMOs
    weather modification
    fluoride
    5G
    vaccinations
    endless Wars
    endless false Flags like 911 corporate controlled media
    etc etc etc etc etc etc ad nauseam

  39. Thank you for sharing this life changing message for me. I knew meds weren't working for me but no one would listen and you finally voiced the road to healing I knew I was missing. Many blessings.

  40. 80% of people are extroverted [in the Jungian sense]. So distance from the group is bad for them. They also tend to be superficial, unlike introverts. So although much of this lecture may be correct, it is not true for about 20% of people who are introverts, who like their own company & solitude most of the time. Intrusion can be just as devastating as nelgect. So be sure to allow introverts their space- they need it – they are not lonely just happy to be alone [INTP]

  41. Y take medications for anything like that I been very depressed n etc.. n I think of the stone ages n they didn’t take medicines so what I do is I help myself the natural way of eating rite n exercising too:) n there’s more but no body listens to me n I don’t have no one

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